Showing posts with label confidence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label confidence. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Group Coaching Teleseries - "Inf"YOU"-n-cial Mastery"

I'm very excited about my upcoming Group Coaching Tele-series - "Inf"YOU"-n-cial Mastery". I'm going to be focusing on four area's: Following Through, Building Confidence, Staying Motivated and Life Results. All are welcome and the insight and strategies will support you no matter where you are in life.

Are you sick and tired of not getting the results and always falling short? I've found that most people don't follow through on a consistent basis. Do you lack self-confidence? What would your life look like as a confident individual? I'll be taking you through strategies to have the confidence to own your life.

Let's face it we need motivation to keep going. I'll help you create a system so that everyday you are feeling great and you're ready to take action and not let anything stop you.

Isn't it frustrating when you fall short of your goals? In order to achieve life results we need a system and strategy that works. That's also a focus in this tele-series.

To get more information on the group coaching tele-series "Inf"YOU"-n-cial Mastery" click this link http://bit.ly/djigroup

Monday, December 14, 2009

Does a Point of Reference matter?

First of all let's define what I mean about a point of reference. A point of reference is a specific experience that you tend to go to very often. Otherwise said, your mind thinks about this event and will revisit it often. You develop a belief around this experience and it becomes your point of reference. So what does this all mean, well it means a lot rather you realize it or not. Now, the important question to ask, can a point of reference be good or bad? It can be both.

Let's take a look at an example, how about a good point of reference. An individual has been delivering presentations over the last couple years that have been going very well. This particular person had been very fearful of public speaking in the past. Now looking ahead his point of reference is I'm a growing speaker. This makes him feel great and confident and wanting more of public speaking.

Now let's check out an example of a bad point of reference. This individual has been really struggling with developing business and getting sales. He's a commercial loan officer and his primary role is to get new business. Because he's been struggling for quite some time he's developed a language pattern that he says too much. He'll often say, "I'd rather be mediocre instead of being a champion". He feels why work so hard and get so little. So his point of reference is mediocre instead of being a champion.

Is it clear that there's a difference between these two individuals? Can you see how the first person will grow and get results? And how the second will continue to struggle and truly be unhappy about his life. What is your point of reference? Is it serving you and bringing your life to the next level? Take some time to develop an empowering point of reference. Use it as much as you like and it will serve you.